A homesteading snob? Are you one? What do I mean by that term? How dare I accuse of that when I don’t even know you? No need to get your feathers ruffled! Writing about the modern homesteading lifestyle since 2002, I am sure I have been guilty of being a homesteading snob myself. Now that I have experienced the ups and downs that life has presented me, I have more of an open mind. I want to encourage people in all walks of life to become more self-sufficient. At least as much as they are able, depending on their own situation and life. We are all different……….yet so much alike.The biggest expense we have is usually housing, whether you pay for an apartment or a mortgage on a house you are buying. Even if your house is paid for, the cost of owning one and maintaining it can be costly. Add in the utilities and there goes your paycheck. Most people take from their food budget as the other bills go up. What else can you do? Can’t tell the propane company that you can’t pay such a big bill because your income does not go up. No, instead your food budget has to be cut. Another fact of life is that some people don’t even have a food budget! Probably more than you know.
It is easy for you who grow and raise all your own vegetables, fruits, meat and dairy to look down your noses at the ones who do not. Or for others who shop for locally grown organic foods and wouldn’t touch a processed food with a ten foot pole. But you know, not all people can afford to shop for those foods because along with the label of organic comes the status of higher prices. If you are shopping with a low budget or no budget, you just can’t afford that food no matter how much healthier and safer it is for you and your family. These people need your support and encouragement. Maybe you could share some food from your garden with someone who is struggling? Or offer to show someone how to start their first garden? Trade some produce for some assistance in your garden. Plant extra for that purpose. Who couldn’t use help in planting and weeding and later on with the harvest? Teach someone how to can while having their help during your busy canning season and sharing the bounty. Instead of being a homesteading snob, excite someone!
Many families live from food pantries. Probably more than from food stamps, because the people in the middle are lost. They make too much money to qualify for any type of benefits and too little to pay all their bills and still buy food. Their basic expenses such as housing, utilities, insurance and transportation lowers their income to levels way below the poverty guidelines. So what can they do? It doesn’t matter. No food this month. Try telling that to your children or a husband that has a physically demanding job and is living on low nutritional foods. Even though I live off the grid and raise a huge garden every year, I still have to buy food from the grocery stores. I tried buying organic and locally grown, but just didn’t have a budget to support that food. I have seen other homesteaders complain about people not wanting to pay $3-$5. for a dozen of homegrown organic eggs. I can’t pay that much myself. I can buy them much cheaper at the local grocery store and I usually buy two cartons of 18 eggs each for less than $3.00. We go through a lot of eggs here, my husband having four a day and myself having two. I don’t even use them for baking, instead using powdered eggs for that so we have the fresh for breakfast. If all eggs were sold at the higher prices I wouldn’t be able to afford them at all, organic or not. It all comes down to shopping within your budget. Some people have a smaller budget than others. So I do what I can to put food on my table.
Instead of being a homesteading snob and complaining about others, put forth an effort to encourage, help and teach them. Food prices keep going up. Packaging keeps getting smaller. Young people may not have been taught how to provide food for themselves and their families by their parents. When they are broke, sharing your seeds and showing them how to plant a garden is a great start. Many young people have grown up in a family where both parents worked, as I did too. My mother left a written paper with instructions of what I was supposed to do when I got home from school to get our supper started. So when she came home she just had some basic things to complete for our home made supper. We never ate in restaurants or had any type of fast foods when I was growing up. In fact, my father made our breakfast every morning before he left for work. We could have whatever we wanted, usually eggs cooked a variety of ways, pancakes or cereal, hot or cold. Sometimes he’d throw a hot dog in there for a treat since he liked having one for his breakfast on some mornings. Help someone and it helps you too. Not only do you have the feeling of helping someone, but you have encouraged them to help someone else like you did. Try it!
Copyright © 2016 Kathleen G. Lupole
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